Bit of a trigger warning for this one so if ya read on be cautioned

My friends are agreeing that some of my parents are mentally abusive and idk how to feel...

 I feel dumb for not noticing anything. Shit like my dad’s fiancé constantly being subtly homophobic and criticizing every single thing about my personality that doesn’t fit this mold she made for me. Or my mom constantly making me anxious or calling me the whole r-word (pretty sure…