I think that there are quite a lot of guys in the seduction community who don’t quite understand direct game, or at least what I consider direct game to be and how it works. I think that those who think of direct game think that it just consists of going up to a woman and telling her exactly what you’re thinking. I disagree. Just like indirect game is more than just not displaying interest in a woman, direct game is more than just displaying interest.

First off, let me say that in order to be successful at direct game, you must be not 50%, not 99%, but 100% confident in yourself and who you are. Part of being successful at direct game is truly KNOWING that you are one of the top guys out there, and not just lying to and trying to fool yourself. Mature women test for this first by looking at you and seeing how well groomed/dressed you are, and they test you for consistency during conversation and how well your conversation skills are.

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For instance, being dressed better than other guys; not flinching or backtracking when mature women test you; and having superior conversation skills. This lets mature women know that there is reason for your directness: that you are a top guy and really must have access to a lot mature women. Now you know why trying to fool yourself doesn’t work; you must be 100% confident because you KNOW that you really are a catch, there are very logical reasons why, and mature women can see this when they interact with you. The problem with guys who have trouble with direct game is that they try to fake being top notch men, and mature women quickly sniff them out as frauds.

When mature women look at the natural order of things, they know that the men at the top tend to be the most direct (Hollywood stars, singers, jocks, etc), and they know that the men at the bottom tend to be the most indirect (nerds who won't even make eye contact or even say "hi"). In other words, top notch men have no problem being direct with mature women because they know that they have many options; and losers are terrified, so they are as indirect and as cautious as possible with mature women, because they know that they don't have options. Mature women know that the more direct you are, the more alpha you must be.

Now onto why I believe that direct game is far superior to routine style game. First, you are never in the dark. I’ve personally seen this with many guys who use indirect game: they talk to a girl, maybe get her phone number, maybe go on a date with her, but are never quite sure if she sees him as more than a friend, IF a friend at all. With direct game, at least with my style, I establish the mutual attraction within the first five minutes. In other words, there is no confusion. If that girl is talking to me, gives me her number, or goes on a date with me, then I KNOW that she is sexually attracted to me. There is no guessing, and most importantly, no wasted time.

Secondly, with direct game, you KNOW that a girl likes you for you. It is my understanding that a lot of routine style game guys have trouble keeping girlfriends. If I could take a wild guess, I would say that if they establish any kind of attraction with a girl, that girl becomes attracted to his routines, or rather, the novelty of the moment. What happens when he runs out of routines or she sees his true personality? Many of these mature women lose interest after the novelty wears off. With direct game, you present yourself as you are, therefore, you know that she is attracted to you and not some novelty that you used to get her.

And lastly, with direct game, you KNOW that you’re getting what you want. Why? Because you are telling the girl what you want and giving her the option to move on if she doesn’t want what you want. If you tell a girl that you want sex, and she says that she wants the same thing, then you KNOW that you are getting sex. If you tell a girl that you want to kiss her, and she agrees, then you KNOW that you are going to kiss her. If you tell a girl that you are seeking multiple partners and she agrees, then you KNOW that she won’t walk away. There is no guesswork to it. Direct game is superior game.