I really loved your film. A real challenge you would’ve faced is that it deals with some quite bleak issues, the missing and murdered Indigenous women (MMIW), criminal activity, foster care, even prostitution. How did you work within the scriptwriting process to balance that against what I see as quite the joyful elements of the story, which is really about living your true, Native self?
Oh, I love that way you put that, living your true, Native self. Miciana Alise, who’s my co-writer, who’s also a Native woman, we both really understood from the beginning that what we wanted was to celebrate the women who are living in Native communities and fighting to keep their families together, fighting to keep children and other Native folks safe.
So obviously, as Native people, we deal with these topics and we witness them and experience them as a community. We understood that these more bleak themes would be in the background, because that’s how it feels day in, day out, living in America and living in the US, and for Indigenous populations around the world that have been colonized. But what we wanted to do was have those be burning in the background, and really focus in primarily on the relationship between Jax and Roki and how their love for each other and how their love for their mother/sister was the cornerstone of everything that they did.
So while they’re traversing this somewhat bleak topography, what’s pushing them forward and what is grounding them is their humanity for each other. We wanted to communicate that humanity to audiences—and it was tough on set, we knew we were dealing with some dark subject matter and we took time for each other. Sometimes, people would need to go take a break. I don’t think there was a day that didn’t go by that I didn’t cry on set. We were all in it together, but at the same time, there was just as much laughter and just as much celebration for what we were doing with each other. In the end, the film really culminates in a moment of pure connection and joy. We understand that the corrupt wheels of justice will continue to turn, but at least we are left with a sense of connection and love and joy.
So that’s what we really wanted to do. We knew early on we would never show a body, we would never talk about the details of how a Native woman was murdered. We would leave that in the background, in the periphery, and we would focus on these two beautiful women loving each other.
That’s beautiful.
I also want to touch a little bit on the sex work aspect of the film. As a former sex worker myself, one of the things that I wanted to do in this film was bring a sense of humanity to sex work. Just because Tawi [Roki’s mother] worked as a stripper at the strip club, made her no less a good mother. It didn’t mean she didn’t love her child, didn’t love her sister, and didn’t deserve to continue living life. So for us, we wanted to showcase sex workers as human beings, which often does not happen in film and television. We wanted to show that sex workers were valuable and that they were a part of our thriving community, and just as much energy should be spent searching for them as anyone else that goes missing.